Twelve Days Before Christmas
It seemed like days were as long as weeks. Being young and being told to be good so that on Christmas morning I would be rewarded with games and toys that I longed for, was sweet torture. I believed in Santa Claus until some boys in school told me that it was actually my parents supplying my wants and desires. I usually thought it was a bit strange that Santa brought me socks and underwear on that special day. I don't remember ever asking for those gifts.
It's been a while since I have been so excited to anticipate Christmas morning. The many occasions we shared with our boys were always fun and exciting. Seeing their glowing faces as they opened the gifts we had wrapped for them was pure fun. They both now realize that we are their Santa Claus, I guess!
A three and a half year old granddaughter has again put me back into the Christmas spirit. She believes in the wonder and thrill of receiving presents just because it is Christmas. It's the same feeling that I remember as a young child. Some day, she will realize how much more fun it is to give presents to people you love.
I can't wait for Christmas. The food, the family, the fun, the football and all the presents for Angelina to open. Fun, Fun, Fun.
Thank you Angelina.
Love, G.P.
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Grandparents Day -September 2009
I wonder who came up with this great idea. I imagine some elderly people
who wanted another excuse to see their grandchildren. That works for me. Of
course, its not the young children who remember to honor grandparents, its
their parents honoring their parent for being wonderful Grandparents. The
card companies have nice cards for this occasion. Pat and I got a great
card from Angelina. Her signature is clearly hers and easily recognized by
Pat and I. Just seeing and talking and playing with Angelina is a
Grandparents day any day. Having the opportunity to see her as often as we
do, is a fantastic gift each time she visits.
Thanks to the card companies. Thanks to who ever started this day. Thanks
to Tim and Marcela and to my little Angelina.
Love, GP
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Grandpa Blog 8/20/09
Are You Smarter Than a Three Year Old?
While visiting Angelina and her parents last week, I watched as Angelina's
Dad put up over 100 pictures of animals from all over the world, birds,
fish, mammals, amphibians, anthropoids and many other species of creatures.
While Angelina recognized and correctly named each and every picture, I was
stumped and amazed.
She was then challenged to name many food and food dishes enjoyed all around
the world. Again every picture was named correctly with very little
hesitation. I was at a loss for words.
I think she is now learning to name all the US Presidents, Vice Presidents,
all the states and their capitols, the planets in our solar system and who
knows what else. She is even learning her second language. To be bilingual
and to have the knowledge of so many important aspects of our world is
fantastic.
Her parents are developing a young girl into a knowledgeable new member of
our society. Our planet, our country and our future depend on intelligent
young people. Am I smarter than a Three year old? No, but I will try to
help and inspire Angelina to be one of the smartest people in the world.
Thank you Angelina.
Love, GP
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May 21, 2009
First we went to the playground, then on the little train.
Then we had fried chicken and a cupcake in the park.
Next, we went to the Railroad Station in New Braunfels.
Angelina slept on the way home and after a nice long nap
she jumped in the pool with Grandpa.
We ALL had a great time.
Grandma Van |
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Tomatoes 101 April 2009
I've been trying my best to grow great tasting tomatoes for several years.
I was my best source of knowing what a tomato should look like and taste
like. Since the arrival of Angelina to this world, she has now become the
critic and taster of my tomato garden.
I watch her choose from the many varieties and colors and then see her
reaction. From the first bite, her face and eyes tell me if the fruit is
good or not. When she simply tosses it over her shoulder that tells me that
I may have a problem with that plant. When she devours the entire tomato,
that says I did something right. I heard the other day that children have a
much keener sense of taste and smell then most adults. This was passed on
genetically since the beginning of mankind. The adult knew what plants were
bad and the children had to find out for themselves. Survival of the
smartest and fittest still applies today. I respect Angelina's ability to
know what is good or bad. I know she loves fresh cucumbers and beans as
well. I expect this years' garden to be the best it has ever been. Thank
you Angelina!
Love, GP
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Why Grandpa Has Gray Hair!
My boys have always been the jewels of my life. They have made the job of
being a good Father and Dad a wonderful and new time in my life. Making
sure that they were always safe and healthy was the greatest challenge I
have ever been given. Christmas morning at the age of two, Tim woke up
with pneumonia. Bob stabbed himself in the hand while putting holes in the
lid of a jar. Tim's allergic reaction to an ice cream cone while we were
travling down the highway. Bob breaking his arm swinging from the trees.
The car accidents they have both been involved in. Worrying about all the
years they have been without Pat or I around to watch over them. When I
look back at all of these events, no wonder my hair has changed color.
Although, my boys had problems or scary situations, last week I had the
fright of my life. Pat and I were driving back from Austin on a very busy
IH 35. Pat was driving, I was shotgun and Angelina was in her car seat
directly behind me. We had just bought some fried chicken legs, her
favorite, and were headed to Cabelas Outdoor Store. Angelina had been
playing with one of her favorite stuffed puppies and a large costume ring
with a big plastic stone. Suddenly, we heard her gagging and choking. I
twisted around in my seat to see her in distress. Her eyes wide open and
her face was beet red. I wasn't sure of what the problem was so I pushed my
finger into her mouth. I felt the large ring and was able to pull it out of
her throat. She cried for a while an drank a little bit of water. She
picked up her puppy and seemed just fine. I threw the ring out the window
and tried to bring my blood pressure back down to normal. To her it seemed
as though it was just a normal day in her life. To me it was something I
will never forget and the day that I almost lost my Granddaughter and not
only that but my son's child.
Good and bad things happen to people every day in this world. I had one of
my worst days and one of my best days on March 5, 2009. I learned another
lesson about how quickly situations can change in only seconds. Being the
best and most prepared Grandpa is another one of my goals in this roller
coaster world called life.
Thank you Angelina.
Love, GP
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Living-Learning-Loving
(Feb 09)
Riding with Angelina on the giant ferris wheel at the rodeo, teaching her
the names of the chess pieces and singing along with her to some of her
favorite nursery songs is what this Grandpa really enjoys. This smart, cute
and wonderful little Granddaughter makes every meeting a great day. Helping
a young child to learn and enjoy some fun games and events reminds Grandpa
of the early times and experiences he had as a young child. Our time
together makes me relive and re-love many of my memories from long ago. I
believe the events of my early years can be relived if I am inspired by
someone I love. I don't remember much of my days as a two year old but
Angelina shows me how much fun it is to live and learn new experiences. My
earliest recollection of going up on a ferris wheel was when I was a
teenager. Angelina trusted me enough to go up on one of the tallest wheels
I have ever seen. On this beautiful afternoon at the San Antonio Rodeo she
joined me on the fun ride into the sky. Hearing the tiny squeal come from
her as we quickly headed up to the highest peak on the wheel, reminded me of
my first trip on this thrilling ride. We then stopped at the very top as
other riders were added to the seats of the wheel. We had a few seconds to
really enjoy the view of all of San Antonio and its buildings. The gleam in
her eyes was as if I was seeing it all for the first time.
Pat and I watched a movie about very young school kids learning and playing
chess. I love to play the game so on her next visit Angelina and I took out
a chess set and started naming all the different pieces. She repeats most
words she hears and quickly learned and now remembers all of the pieces
names. Playing and the strategy moves of the game will be our next
challenge. I can't wait to see her win a game against me.
Her dad has recorded many of her favorite songs on discs so that she can
hear them while visiting us. It is truly amazing how many tunes she knows
and can sing very well. I do remember singing some Czech songs to my
Grandma when I was very young. I can still remember the tunes but I can't
remember the words. I believe singing helps young kids learn to speak and
pronunciate words better than reading alone. Poetry and rhymes are fun and
great for young minds. Angelina has a great voice and loves to sing.
Thank you Angelina for showing me how much fun you can have as a two year
old. To me, it's like being a two year old all over again. I can't wait to
be a three year old with you.
Love, GP
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Turkey Day 2008
Our little Angelina has changed a wonderful Thanksgiving meal into an adventure. Angelina has made eathing turkey legs a memorable feast. We have enjoyed turkey at our home for over 30 years. Watching Angelina munching on the huge legs was a thrill for our entire family. The maticulate effort she displayed chewing, biting and ripping the juicy meat from the succulent turkey legs was a sight I will always remember.
She was very careful to not bite any of the small bones or tendons. There is definetly a correct process to ensure the best results when eating turkey legs. Some people are born with this talent and some are not. Angelina knows how to eat and what foods taste really good. I can't wait to see how she handles the ham bone we will have for Christmas at our house.
Love, G.P. |
Halloween in Indiana!
Oct 2008
We arrived at Grandma Far Away's Thursday afternoon. Everyone was anticipating the arrival of Angelina. She would arrive Friday, Halloween Day, around noon. The entire community was thrilled to see her dressed in her princess costume. She was truly a beautiful royal little girl. Soon all the other family members arrived to meet and greet the cute pink princess and her parents and uncles. The candy was difficult to find in the small community in Indiana. Most of the residents had already headed south to avoid the cold winter months. The resort we stayed at had many great things to do and lots of good food. Bonnie and Mike build this place two years ago and were very happy to please us and anyone who wanted to have fun and relax. Boat rides, fishing, feeding the swans and playing on the swings and the toys were all fun things to make Angelina happy. We headed home to Texas Monday morning. We had a great Mexican dinner in East Arkansas, a huge breakfast in Hope, Arkansas and a fantastic sushi lunch in Belton, Texas. It made the trip home feel like a party on wheels. The 10 CD's of 60's music helped the 19 hours of drive time fly by. All the animals at home were happy to see us. The deer drank up all the water in the cattle trough. It did not rain and was very hot in Texas while we were gone. It's great to be back home.
Love, G.P. |
Grandpa's Tractor (Sept 08)
My antique John Deere 206 riding lawn mower is Angelina's favorite riding
toy. She loves to set on my lap as we drive around the property. She
smiles with a grin made up of excitement and fun. At her young age the
tractor ride is about as much fun as a small girl can have. Hopefully, by
next summer she will be ready for the kid's roller coaster ride at seaworld.
At the rate she is growing she should pass the height requirement they
enforce. Of course, Grandpa has bigger plans for Angelina. When ever she
becomes tall enough to reach the brake and clutch pedals of Grandpa's
tractor, Grandpa can smile and watch her cut my lawn. After all, Grandpa
may be too tired and re-tired by that time. In the mean time, Angelina will
learn all about the weed eater and push lawn mower. The hose, rake and
shovel will be her first manual tools before she moves up to motorized
tools. I know Grandpa sounds like a mean old man, but Angelina and Grandpa
always seem to make work more like fun. We always mix in a little fishing
and swimming with our work days. And there's always the hot tub after a long
day maintainin the bunny farm. Thank you Angelina for making work so much
fun.
Love, GP |
Grandpa Blog July 18, 2008
Friday afternoon on our patio Angelina proceeded to pick all the flowers
form our front porch plants. At first I thought no but then realized how
much fun she was having and how natural it seems for a young girl to want to
pick pretty flowers. I enjoyed watching her sniff the fresh plants.
Picking open flowers lets new young buds have room to grow. Thankfully our
well is producing enough water to keep a few plants alive. After gathering
a bunch of flowers she then striped the petals off each stem. There were
yellows, and oranges and some pink and purple flowers for her inspection.
The odors from the marigolds were strong and clean. The geraniums had very
little aroma. After dismantling the flowers she threw all the seeds from
the marigold flowers back into the flower box. Maybe some will start new
plants. I then noticed that she was eating some of the marigold seeds.
They are small shafts about an inch long. They are half black and half
white and really are kind of tasty. She did give me a few to sample myself.
Keep exploring, keep testing and keep learning my little ANGELina. Love GP |
Grandpa blog June 27, 2008
Angelina loves to eat and loves to drink. Today at lunch she was munching
away on some macaroni and green beans when all of a sudden she wanted me to
take her sippy cup. It was full of her favorite beverage, milk. She was
insistent and was about to drop it on the floor. I took it and she was
happy. A little later while I was finishing my lunch, she was pointing to
several items on our dining room table; a deck of cards, a toy, some books
and a straw in the wrapper. After asking her which item she was interested
in, she chose the straw. She then peeled the paper away from the straw and
handed the straw to grandma. Grandma took the lid off Angelina's sippy cup
and Angelina put the straw into the cup. She proceeded to drink almost all
of her milk. Grandma was clearing the table and noticed the lid of
Angelina's sippy cup had some small seeds collected in the sippy area. They
were from some fruit drink she had earlier. They didn't allow the milk to
flow. This frustrated our little Angelina so she had to devise a new plan
so that she could drink the milk. Communication can come in all kinds of
ways. Until Angelina is fluent in a language that I can understand, it is
my responsibility to try to interpret her mannerisms. Thank you for the
lesson Angelina.
Love, GP
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June 7, 2008
A Nemo Birthday Party
Normally, you would never see me at a two year old little girl's birthday
party, but this little girl is different. My little Angelina turned
two years old and I am one of the happiest grandpas in the world. It
was a great party at Incredible Pizza that Angelina's mom and dad planned
for her. Many of Angelina's family and friends were thrilled to enjoy
a wonderful meal, a fantastic birthday cake, and a fun place to watch
movies and play games. I saw everyone there smile and have a fun time.
Angelina had so much fun with so many games and rides. She loved the
pizza, cake and ice cream. We all spent about five hours at the birthday
event. My highlight of the party was when I found Nemo and gave it to
my sweetest little granddaughter. Nemo was hiding in the Claw game box
amongst the other little dolls. The competition was tough. I thought
at one point that I might lose him to another gamer. But, he ran out
of credit! Only two more tries and Nemo was mine. I am about to turn
sixty years old and I feel like a kid again. This was the funnest(yeah
Grandpa spelled it that way) birthday party I have been to in a long
time. I can't wait until next year. Thank you Angelina
Happy Birthday,
Love G.P. |
May 2008
"You never know"
Dear Angelina,
About twenty years ago, your grandma and I were raising rabbits. We started a business selling rabbits, cages and equipment. Your dad and uncle Bob helped us build and develop the business until they moved out of our house to begin their own lives. Then one day, about fifteen years ago, your Grandma told me about a young girl who wanted to work for us so that she could learn about rabbits and raise them herself. I wasn't sure that she could do all of the jobs and chores that our boys used to do. She started working for us a couple days a week after to going to school. I worked her very hard. She did all the difficult jobs and chores in our barns. She never complained and whenever I gave her something to do, she would just say "OK". After a while she became very good at her jobs and really became part of our business and family. She went with us to some rabbit shows. We taught her all we knew about rabbits, and we had fun on nice days at the river. She was like the daughter we never had. She taught me a lot about being a better father, grandpa and a better person. You have met Emy once and I am sure that you will have the opportunity to see her many times in your future. Keep your heart open to new people that you will meet in your life. You never know who will become one of your best friends and a great addition to your family. We love Emy and I am sure you will love her too. Thank you Emy and thank you Angelina.
Love G.P.
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Eating Goober Peas 2/15/08
Spending Valentine’s morning with my Angel and my Angelina;
what a great way to celebrate this special occasion. First we
planted a few green bean seeds in the garden. We are expecting
rain this weekend and hopefully no more freezing nights. We
all helped planting the seeds and digging the earth. Angelina
was not impressed by the fact that worms live in our garden.
We then picked up a bunch of dry limbs that have fallen this
winter. Angelina knows how difficult it can be walking around
the yard when small tree limbs are in the area. We will now
have plenty of firewood for our next bar-b-q at the house. Next
we all played on the swing near the pond. I lowered the chain
so that now Angelina can get on and off by herselfJ She also
played in her red wagon and we got a good workout pulling her
around the yard. Goober peas are also called peanuts. I’m not
sure why. I do remember singing a song about eating goober peas
when I was much younger. Peanuts have become one of Angelina’s
favorite snacks. Fifi and I have been enjoying them for quite
a while. As I cracked a few shells, all of us were wondering
who would get the next peanut. I try to share them out evenly
but Fifi is very fast and Angelina does get upset when it is
her turn for a treat. I had a great Valentine morning. Thank
you to my Angel and thank you to Angelina.
Love, GP |
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Staying at Grandpas' House! 2/14/08
I don’t remember a lot about my life before the age of twelve. Almost
every Christmas, Easter and sometime in the summer months, I spent a
few days with my Grandpas and Grandmas. One Grandpa lived in town and
the other in the country. I’m talking about no electricity or gas or
even a telephone in that country Grandpa’s house. A wood burning stove
and heater, water dipped from a well in the ground, and no neighbors
to speak of. To me this was the Wild, Wild West. The country Grandparents
did not work or leave the house very often. They grew a garden, raised
some chickens and made bread and almost all of the food they ate. The
kitchen always smelled of yeast and baked meats. The main room was Grandpa’s
den and play room. I do remember playing many domino games with him.
I believe that is where I learned to count. There was never anything
to do but there was always something to do. It was a great experience
for me to explore and grow my imagination. Feed the chickens, pick the
garden, bring in firewood and carry buckets of water were chores that
needed to be done. It was fun and a lot of work. The city Grandparents
house, there was a television, one channel (it was the early 50’s).
They had electricity gas and daily mail delivery. There were not any
chores and really not much to do. I played in the back yard and developed
my imagination making little houses and roads. The steam train engines
were in near site and I always enjoyed watching and listening to the
whistles and loud sounds they made. Both homes took very good care of
me and loved me very much. Now that I am a Grandpa, I have the opportunity
to see and have fun with my Granddaughter. I had only boys as a father
and am trying to be as helpful as I can with her. My home is a combination
of my Grandparent’s homes. We have gardens, chores, televisions, back
yards and lots of things to keep her buys and expanding her imagination.
Thank you Angelina. Love, GP |
Our First Time Out! 1/23/08
It was a cold Wednesday afternoon. Angelina had spent the night and
day before with us. She was not eating as well as she usually does.
She was more active and had a very short temper with Grandpa and all
her toys. She slept well and had good naps both days. Her Mommy said
she may have a little temperature but we did not notice any problems.
Our only conclusion was that she is maturing and wants to be more independent.
It was a surprise and a totally new side of our little "Angel". After
a few minutes of her griping, screaming and yelling at a cart she was
pushing around the house, grandma put her in her bed with a blanket
and a doll. She got very quiet and stayed in her bed for about 10 minutes.
She never made a sound. When she came out into the living room, she
acted liker her gold old self again. The rest of the evening was spent
with Grandpa until her Daddy came to take her home. It was a tense and
sad time for all of us. Grandpa and Grandma want our little Angelina
to be happy and healthy. Short time outs might help everyone to calm
down and enjoy this wonderful life.
Years, days, and hours seem to fly by so fast as we get along in this
hectic world. There are so many things that take up most of our free
time and make us stressed and concerned about our future. Time out for
me is to mediate and reflect on what is important in my life and in
the lives of my loved ones. Try to do the right thing, try to do a good
think and try to enjoy my time with Angelina and my family is my goal.
I want Angelina to feel love and give love all through her life with
me and her loved ones. Time outs can be fun.
Thank you Angelina.
Love, GP |
A Bird In The Hand (GP blog 1/12/08)
I was about ten years old when I had a pet parakeet named Pete.
He (I guess) was mostly green with a yellow head. I taught him a
few words like “Pretty Pete” and “Hello.” He always came to me when
I called his name and was kept safe in his small cage. A few days
ago, a cockatiel bird landed in the trees above our shop. It was
squawking and afraid of the dog and cats but did come down to land
on my shoulder. I brought it into the house in one of our cages.
I watered and fed it some sunflower seeds I use for the wild cardinals.
He wasn’t happy in the cage and wanted to set on my head and shoulders.
He was very friendly and loving but also very independent. If there
was something I wanted him to do but he didn’t want to do, he would
squawk and flap his feathers. I realized how much this bird reminded
me of my little Angelina. She loves for me to play with her and
hold her but if she decides to do something differently, she will
squawk and rustle her little feathers. She is both fragile and strong
but just like a small bird, she must be handled with care and understanding.
Angelina loves to play and fly around the house but needs to be
watched and kept in a safe place at night. She must eat and drink
what is good for her but usually only what she really likes. I know
that pets and young children are not the same but many of their
actions are very similar. Training a small bird to do what is necessary
to survive can be as difficult as training a small child. She should
listen and obey her parents and keepers so that she too will understand
the rules of life. This cockatiel bird has made me realize how much
more effort, as Angelina’s Grandpa, I must put into insuring she
will be healthy and happy. It is my plan to help Angelina enjoy
every minute of her new beginnings and her future life.
Thank you Angelina,
Love, GP
p.s. "Eats like a bird" does not apply to this cockatiel
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Memory Processing Grandpa Blog 12/23/07
Just a few days before Christmas, our time had come to do our BUNNYRABBIT.com
inventory. Well, Angelina was visiting and as usual wanted to be a part
of the process. We have a product which comes in cans and tubes. There
were about 20 of each mixed in a bag. It was our job to separate one design
from the other and place them in their proper drawer. After handing my
18 month old Granddaughter about 5 of each type of canister and showing
her which drawer was the proper drawer, she soon figured out the correct
place for each product. I was impressed but she did not show much emotion.
She was just ready to accomplish a new and different task as soon as possible.
I believe she will make a great employee of part owner of the business
in the very near future.
Thank you Angelina,
Love GP |
One Less Thing to Worry About!
After seeing so many commercials about taking one drug or another to prevent
all kinds of physical health problems and hearing about certain hospital
procedures to help prevent different types of cancer and with the encouragement
of my wonderful wife, I went in for a colonoscopy scan. I asked a lot
of questions and got a variety of answers about the procedure. After a
preliminary examination by my doctor, I was given a date for the surgery,
a list of things to do before that date plus slight fear of what might
be found in my colon. I was not to eat anything for 24 hours before the
scan, I had to take a liquid that would clear my colon of nay impurities
and I had to appear at the hospital and take off all my clothes. The outer
waiting room was filled with old people. I realized these were the smart
people who had made it to this point in their long lives. I was then taken
to a separate area and prepared and processed. I was asked more questions
about my past and was poked and wired up for surgery. After I was confined
in the hospital bed I was told that I could not have any alcohol for 24
hours after the procedure. I nearly changed my mind at that point but
did go ahead with the surgery. The worst thing about the operating room
was the terrible jokes that the anesthesiologist was telling me. I then
fell asleep for about 2 seconds. I woke up to my wife’s smiling face.
She asked how I was feeling. I said fine and passed a little gas. The
doctor came in and we talked about my colon. She showed me some pretty
pictures of my interior. She said other than 3 small polyps, a few diverticula’s
and a fairly long colon, (I’m not sure what she meant by that) that I
was a fine specimen of a human being. What a relief. One less thing for
me and my family to worry about. Several times while I was lying in the
waiting area wearing my stylish hospital gown, I envisioned Angelina and
I setting on the swing in our front yard. I sang a few bars of our favorite
song; “Row, Row, Row Your Boat”, I thought about how many more holidays,
birthdays and vacation times that I wanted to spend with her and my wonderful
wife and boys. This was a Christmas present I was giving myself and my
family. Knowing my colon was not filled with any cancer would be a relief
for everyone. I encourage everyone to have this simple medical scan. Knowing
that you will have many more wonderful days with your family and friends
is a great feeling.
Thank you to my wife, my doctor and to my little Angelina.
Love, GP |
Shopping With Angelina
GP blog 12-13-07
This holiday season, with all of its hustles and bustles, I had one
of the best times that I have ever had going shopping. Everyone knows
how much I dread going into a shopping mall or even a grocery store.
Going to the shops with Angelina made the trip fun and enjoyable. First
of all, everyone sees her and smiles. They comment on how cute she is
and ask how old she is. She enjoys riding in the shopping cart and looking
at all of the sights on the store shelves. She does not grab or point
at any particular item or toys. I am the one who finds things that she
might enjoy. That’s the fun part. Buying for a little Granddaughter
is a new and wonderful experience for me. Years ago, as a young father,
I was not able to buy everything I wanted for my two boys. Today, I
have a better opportunity to spoil my Grand Baby. Spending money on
someone you really love is very easy.
Thank you Angelina,
Love, GP |
Deer Hunting 101 (GP blog 12/12/07)
Or What Makes Grandpa Laugh
It was another beautiful, calm Wednesday afternoon at the bunny farm.
Grandma left to see her masseuse, Grandpa had his Fosters and Fifi was
playing with Angelina in the front yard. Quietly and slowly, several
deer walked into our view. Angelina stopped and watched the animals
as they nibbled on leaves and the grass just below our yard. She made
some noises with her lips as if she was calling a dog. She was also
slapping her leg with one hand to get the deer’s attention. They did
raise their heads to see her and Fifi. They didn’t move. She then crawled
down the rock steps and walked toward her animals. They then did move
from side to side and stomped their feet several times. Fifi followed
Angelina down the steps and caused the deer to be a little more concerned.
The two little deer hunters charged the deer and ran after them to the
lower area of our yard. The deer stopped for a while and then started
running in circles as the two stalkers again attacked their prey. Some
of the deer ran into the woods and watched the little hunters run after
the slower animals. Eventually, all of the deer an off into the woods
and did not return. Angelina and Fifi were a little disappointed but
both had a little smile on their faces. I haven’t had the chance to
explain to Angelina exactly what went wrong with her first attempt at
deer hunting. Some day she may want to know how Grandpa hunts deer or
maybe she won’t. Her method was truly more exciting and humorous than
my way of hunting animals. I’m fairly certain that Angelina will enjoy
eating some of Grandpa’s famous delicious deer jerky. The deer population
is still growing in our part of the Texas Hill Country. Next year’s
deer hunting trips should be even more thrilling and fun.
Thank you Angelina, Love, GP |
What Makes
Grandma Smile? GP blog 11/9/07
For many years I have been the one person who could give Pat a chuckle,
laugh or smile with my actions or jokes. Since we have been together
37 years she has heard all of my jokes and stories and doesn't laugh
anymore when I fall down. Ever since our Wednesday evening house guest
has been staying here, Grandma has found her laughter and smiles all
over again. The funny little phrases that Angelina tries to say, the
cutest smiles she projects, the crazy things she can do with her hands
and the way she can fall without hurting herself make us both laugh
and smile with joy. Her latest escapades include; showing Grandpa how
well she can brush her teeth, cleaning a room and then destroying it
again within 5 minutes, trying to make friends with cats that really
don't like anyone and feeding the pond fish with every bit of dog or
cat food she can find. The determination and fortitude she has shown
us in whatever project she tries to accomplish makes us smile and have
great expectations for her future. I am sure all young children are
full of joy and wonder but Angelina is a granddaughter that makes our
Wednesday s the greatest day of the week. Thank you, Angelina.
Love, GP |
Trick or
Treat 2007
Princess Leia, Queen Patricia and me as Obe Won Knobe went out Halloween
night to gather a bag full of goodies. We went to our local shopping
center area. Most of the local residents were there. A lot of the adults
were dressed as cowboys and farmersJ there were some adults did wear
some more traditional type Halloween costumes. There were many scary
little monsters. Some of these little people also had on some colorful,
unique costumes. The weather was perfect for an outside adventure around
the store fronts. Businesses were passing out many different types of
gifts for the little monsters. Candy, book marks, fortune cookies and
tamales were all gathered up by our group of trickers. Of course, the
biggest treat for all the folks that evening was to see Angelina dressed
in her Princess Leia costume. Everyone commented on how cute she looked
on her first trip out as a Halloween contestant. We were too late to
participate in the cutest costume contest. But after hearing the reactions
of the people we saw that night, I am sure Angelina would have been
the winner! This was the first time that Grandma and I have been out
on this festive evening in a long time. We both had a great time and
did complete our grocery shopping at the market that night. Back at
our house, we read a couple books, drank a little milk and slept all
night long. I can't wait for next October. Thank you, Angelina.
Love, GP |
Breakfast
in 2007 (10/26/07)
I've usually gotten up and out of bed in the mornings, got dressed,
brushed my teeth and hair and gobbled down a quick breakfast consisting
of a variety of foods. This year Angelina taught me what breakfast was
all about. Breaking the fast, means that one has not eaten for a while
and will soon be enjoying their first meal. When she sets down in her
high chair to enjoy her first meal of the day, she really enjoys her
food. It is a slow, delicate process of looking over the food offered,
tasting each portion and being considerate enough to offer me a bite
or two ever so often. It has become amazing to me how delicious and
interesting each food group can taste when taking small and deliberate
bites. Watermelon is so juicy and sweet. Eggs are soft and succulent.
Sausage is spicy and salty. Bagels are mostly bland except when strawberry
jam is introduced. Milk is creamy and satisfying. But the best part
of the morning meal is sharing it with a 16 month old Granddaughter
who smiles and talks baby talk to me. It is the best part of my days
with her and Pat at our home.
Love, GP |
How I Lower
My Blood Pressure 9/6/07
On most Thursday mornings I normally get some coffee, read some newspaper,
watch some morning news on TV and start packaging some BRcom orders
to ship out. On September 6th of 2007, I sat on our outside swing
with Angelina celebrating her 15th month birthday. We played with
Fifi, listened to the birds sing and enjoyed the cool breeze on a
clear Texas morning. Not much was said except for a few oohs and ahhs
from Angelina and me. We sat together for about twenty minutes when
I realized how calm and relaxed she helped me feel. We didn’t worry
about any wars or how we could afford our taxes or if our insurance
was adequate or if any work would be done today. We enjoyed each others
company and the fact that we loved each other very much. It seems
that the older I get, days like today become rarer. We decided to
go to the river today and swim and fish for a while. This evening
we will meet the rest of the family at Angelina’s favorite restaurant.
I hope to enjoy many, many more days like this one with my Granddaughter
and our family.
Thank you Angelina!
Love, Grandpa
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Another Day
with Angelina! 9/6/07
We got the pleasure of babysitting for Angelina this Wednesday, Wednesday
night and Thursday. We always have too much fun. Today she is 15 months
old. It's hard to believe, the time is going so quickly. I am amazed
at how much she is changing and what she has learned since the last
time I saw her. Every time we see her she is crossing a new threshold.
Yesterday she went down the slide for the first time ALL BY HERSELF!
She kind of landed with a thud but got right up and went over to the
stairs to go down again:-)
Today she was kicking the soccer ball around. She picked it up more
than she kicked it so I think she wants to be a goalie. Grandpa has
a tripped planned to the river today so I plugged the video camera
in to make sure the battery is charged. Grandpa wants to take her
fishing! I'm sure we'll get in a little swimming too.
Thank you Tim & Marcela for raising such a wonderful child!
Love, Nonny
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Keep It Clean
Grandpa Blog 7/22/07
One evening as Angelina and I were finishing a sudoku puzzle, she
noticed the table next to my chair and how cluttered it was with my
TV controls, my glasses and pens, my vitamins and aspirin, my notes
and napkins and a lot of other necessities. She then proceeded to
eliminate all of these items one by one. The trash can and the floor
were covered with my stuff. We then picked up these life altering
articles and placed them back on the table. Some things were left
in the trashcan and some things were put in different locations. I
believe Angelina knows exactly how bad I am at controlling neatness
and organization. My occasional table is now acceptable in her eyes.
The pictures of her and I are now more visible. Thank you for helping
Grandpa solve yet another problem.
Love Grandpa
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Grandpa Blog
7/20/07
"Almost Persuaded"
Almost Persuaded. An old western song popular during the 70's. It
was one of the few songs that I knew most of the words and its melody.
Tim and Bob probably heard me sing that song about a thousand times.
My 1956 Ford pickup had a radio but no speakers. So, in order for
me to concentrate on driving and avoiding answering so many questions
from my boys, I sang. They usually got the hint at about the fourth
time I started to sing it all over again. Some of their favorite questions
were something like; when will we be home and why are trees green
and whey don't you fix the stupid radio. Well, that was 25 years ago
since I remember singing that old country tune until July 18, 2007.
Angelina and I were sitting on the swing in our front yard. She and
I were both pretty exhausted from the days work. She was humming something
about how much she likes cats and dogs and I thought I heard a bit
of that old melody in her voice. I started singing my old cowboy song
and she put her head on my lap. After the second chorus, I noticed
that she had gone totally asleep. She slept for nearly an hour before
grandma came home to take us out for dinner. I felt like Angelina
and I bonded a little more that day as well as bringing back some
wonderful memories of the days with my two young boys in that old
pick up truck. Thank you Angelina.
Love, GP
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Spoiled Rotten
6/14/07
Whenever Angelina arrives at our house the first thing she does is
look for her little rocker pony. She will ride for a while and then
try to replace all the animals in her wood puzzle. Playing music on
her entertainment playpen wall and squeezing some of her dolls comes
next. After enjoying an hour an a half nap she has lunch consisting
usually of some broccoli, pasta and some fruit. Then it’s outside
for swim time and a relaxing swing with the cats and FiFi. Singing
and learning some new phrases is her favorite pastime with a few obscene
noises coming from her lips and tongue. Learning how to take some
steps and pointing out a few of her favorite pictures of herself on
the fridge are next on her agenda. Another hour nap around 3:30 and
its back to her play area in the living room. Writing all over Grandpa’s
sudoku puzzle and shaking his vitamin bottle always make her laugh.
Then is time to crawl around the pool to get n her bigger rocking
horse and to watch Goldie swim around in the pool. Dinner time is
normally quiet. She loves rice, beans and tortillas. Go Figure! Relaxing
on Grandpa’s lap to watch wheel and making funny faces and sounds
will last for some time. She then loves to look at some of the photo
albums of her adventures so far in her life. Pointing at some pictures
in a nursery book while Grandpa tries to read it can last through
many small books. After some eye rubbing and a few yawns, Grandma
gives her a bottle of milk and rocks her to sleep. She usually sleeps
about ten hours and always wakes with a big smile on her face. Yes
I am spoiled rotten. Thank you Angelina!
Love, Grandpa
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A Day of Many
Firsts!
This was the first three people birthday party that I have ever attended.
This was the first piñata busting party I have ever attended. This
was the first time I have been to a birthday party that had pony rides.
This party had the first birthday party egg races. This was the first
birthday party that did not have enough time to do the “Pin the Tail
on Shrek Donkey” game or blow the biggest soap bubble game or even
pick up the most rocks off the grass game. This was the first time
I sang the Happy Birthday song three times. This party was planning
to have people making balloon animals contest. This was the first
time I have ever attended a birthday party with that kind of fun.
This was the first time that Shrek was setting on my entrance gate.
But the most Exciting First was that I had a Granddaughter celebrating
her very first birthday party at my house with her Grandma’s, Parents,
Uncles, Great GrandParents and many of her friends.
Love, Grandpa
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A Visit From
the Princess of Derkaderkastan!
It was late Thursday morning when I was informed that the beautiful,
intelligent and happy Princess was to spend a couple of days gracing
our abode with her presence. She arrived dressed in her usual elegant
manner. She was asleep due to a day of celebration and excitement
on Wednesday. After a nap and some lunch we then proceeded to talk
about and plan the events that were to take place on Saturday. The
Shrek theme and her Fiona doll seemed to make her very happy. Swimming
and swinging were out favorite afternoon activities. It was hot outside
but none of us noticed. We had lots of shade and a nice breeze for
comfort. Her first visit to the 46 Bar & Grill was nearly as exciting
as the trip to Outdoor World. Several mounted animals and a lot of
pictures, artifacts and banners cover the walls of this historic landmark.
The pool table and some of the arcade games is where Princess Derkaderkastan
interests were. She tried “Street Fighter” and “Ms Pacman” but passed
on the “Lets Get Teed Off” golf game. We did kick the queue ball around
a bit, but never really finished a game on the table. Dinner was served.
French fries, grilled chicken and a cold bottle of water was all the
Princess wanted or needed for dinner. The remainder of the evening
was spent watching the San Antonio Spurs kick the tar out of the Cleveland
Whatevers. The Princess and I had along night’s sleep and awoke Friday
to more than a few tasks and problems involving Saturday’s party.
We solved most of the situations and relaxed that afternoon in the
pool, on the swing and setting on the front lawn. The Princess seemed
pleased, Grandpa seemed pleased and all was right in the kingdom of
Derkaderkastan.
Love, Grandpa
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Happy First
Birthday To You!
With the Biggest Smile and the Cutest Outfit, Angelina celebrated
her very first birthday with Mommy, Daddy, Uncle Bob, Uncle Ernest,
Nonny and Grandpa. She started the day having a plate of pasta and
sauce at Johnny Carinos restaurant. She then entered the Texas Outdoor
World store and came face to face with the first grizzly bear she
has ever seen. The bear wasn’t as startled as she was since it was
stuffed. She did see several live fish found in the lakes and rivers
of Texas. There were also many other animals mounted on rocks and
walls all over the store. She was impressed with some of the great
camouflage gear. She also picked out a great tent for the time in
the near future when she can go camping with her Parents. The afternoon
was topped off with a variety of desserts at Mimi’s Diner and Bar.
After indulging in some of the thickest chocolate mousse cake, she
was ecstatic with the family and anyone else in the establishment.
We all sang “Happy Birthday”, took some photos and movies and then
headed home for a little R & R. Grandpa was pooped. I had a great
time at Angelina’s Birthday Celebration. I can’t wait for the Bar-B-Que
Party Saturday for Angelina, Pat & Ernest.
Love, Grandpa
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Did You Have
Fun At the Coast?
Everyone seems to want me to answer that question. My answer is "Angelina
had a fantastic Gulf Coast Vacation." Wading in the ocean waves, swimming
in the pools and feeding the sea gulls were three of her favorite
pass times. She was not shy or afraid of anything the Texas coast
had to offer. She did get a little bit of tan on her legs and a little
bit of sand in her pants but she never fussed or complained. She discovered
the difference between Cheese Nips and Cheese-Its. Cheese Nips are
for sea gulls and Cheese-Its are for her and Grandpa to share. She
had a great crab floatie to play with while in the pool and a beach
ball for playing volley ball with her family. While shopping in Port
Aransas, Angelina and her Parents picked out the perfect tee shirt
for her to wear. Hours of video tape and hundreds of pictures were
taken so that Angelina will always have a diary of her first trip
to the Texas coast. I can't wait for the next vacation.
Love, Grandpa
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Grandpa Blog
April 25, 2007
Two more fun filled days with Angelina. The first toy we played with
Tuesday was my guitar. I showed her how to adjust the strings by singing
the tune “My Dog Has Fleas”! I was taught by my Uncle Jerry a long
time ago how to tune my guitar in this manner. What was really funny,
while Angelina and I were strumming the strings, she kept singing
the same words over and over. She kept singing, “My Dogs Have Fleas”.
Her Dad told me she was referring to the Hua-Hua boys all along. The
boys are blaming the cats for this latest flea infestation. The cats
are blaming the tall grass. The tall grass is blaming all the rain.
The rain is of course due to Global Warming. So in the end, all blame
falls upon carbon emissions of all the traffic in the United States.
Angelina may be seeking some legal advice from her lawyer in this
matter. Until then she will be bathing regularly at home and at Grandpa’s
until the insect problem is solved. FiFi is very concerned and hopeful
that she will be spared any torment from these little pests. Grandpa
is scratching a lot more these days but I think that is normal for
a man of his age.
Love, Grandpa
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Easter with
Grandpa (April 12, 2007)
I’ve always been amazed to see how many Grandparents spend so much
time and travel so much with their Grandchildren. I’ve always thought
that it would be more fun for older adults to spend time with friends
and people of their own age. This Easter changed all my feelings about
that. Angelina spent three fun filled days with Grandma and me during
Easter vacation. We always close our business during Easter for a
few days to rest and enjoy the flowers. Angelina made this years Easter
the best ever. She entertained and taught us a lot about how to enjoy
life as older people. She made us feel much younger and happier than
we have felt in a long time. Her smiles and actions reminded us of
many of the fun times we had with Tim and Bob while they were young.
Seeing her try to eat her first plastic Easter egg was a sight for
any Parent or Grandparent. Watching her open her plastic egg to discover
the contents was even more thrilling for all of us at our Easter dinner
table. Angelina ate her first real green bean, her first scalloped
potato and her own special baby food with her Parents, Grandparents
and Uncles on Easter day. The next two days alone with her GrandParents
was even more thrilling. She was given seven new outdoor toys by her
favorite Step Aunt and niece from Pipe Creek. Joy and Katy Kretzer
brought over these wonderful toys for Angelina to use for as long
as she wants. Angelina is dancing, crawling and starting to walk from
chair to table and table to chair with more and more confidence. Her
talking and singing talents are developing quickly. Her smiles and
laughs are becoming my favorite part of our time together. Each morning
after enjoying a night of at least eight hours of sleep, she would
always rise with a smile and a special happy look in her big blue
eyes that any Grandpa would enjoy seeing. Day times were filled with
playing the organ and learning how to work puzzle parts. Her Parents
have been training her to play and work for herself to keep her life
occupied with new games and toys. Her favorite game at Grandpa’s house
is to get the TV control and change channels, turn the TV on and off
and to adjust the color, tint and sound. She is a future programmer
in training. Thank you Angelina for a Happy Easter.
Love, Grandpa
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Luckiest Person
in the World!
I truly believe I am the luckiest person in the world. I am happy
& healthy. I have a family that is also happy and healthy. We're just
a big happy group! I got the privilege of babysitting for Angelina
twice this week. Every hour I spend with her increases my level of
happiness ten-fold. She is such a happy person. She is growing and
changing every day. Monday she was sitting on the floor playing with
her toys. Thursday she was crawling over to her toys to play with
them! I got the opportunity to video her crawling plus dancing. She
was on all fours and swaying back and forth to the music that she
was making on her keyboard that Grandpa got her. She loves that keyboard.
Angelina, me and Grandpa got to do a little sunbathing Thursday. We
got to see her cute little orange bikini! She had a great time just
soaking up the sunshine and watching Fifi run around the yard:-) Then
she came in the house and that's when she decided to play on the keyboard
and dance to the beat. Later in the day we took her back to Mommy
& Daddy and enjoyed some fried chicken and green bean casserole. It
was a wonderful day. I'm not quite sure but I think she has 6 teeth
right now. She doesn't like to have anyone put their fingers in her
mouth (she doesn't want to catch a cold) so it's hard to tell. She
had a doctor's appointment today for her 9 month check up and the
doctor said she is doing great. My life just gets better and better
every day!
Nonny 3-15-07
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Spring Break
2007
There are only a few opportunities to get a change to see Angelina
three times in only one week. This year was a perfect time for this
to occur. Her parents have done a superb job of keeping her healthy
and happy. She is so inquisitive and interested in learning and experimenting
with new games and toys. Her coordination and vision are developing
so quickly. Her Grandpa has to keep on his toes so that he might keep
up with her. We have been doing stretching and moving exercises together
in order for both of us to stay agile and strong. Our communication
skills have been tested at a very high level this week. Grandpa is
starting to learn a lot from Angelina and her expressions. One of
the best results from her many visits with us this past week, is the
smiles and warmth her Grandma retains even after Angelina has to go
home. Grandma has almost as much fun as I do while being with our
Granddaughter. Angelina is instilling so much love and happiness for
our entire family and all of our gatherings. Thank you, Tim, Marcela
and Angelina for everything you say and do that make us so proud of
you.
Grandpa 3/12/07
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TORTILLAS &
LIMES
During another great meal at Angelina's favorite restaurant she discovered
why she is getting teeth. She noticed her family enjoying all kinds
of colorful delicious foods and decided to try a few for herself.
The flour tortillas were soft and filling but had very little taste
or texture or color. Then when she noticed that Grandpa had one of
those famous Mexican beers, she grabbed his slice of lime and proceeded
to chew and swallow the tart but juicy flavor of this great citrus
treat. She didn't exactly smile but didn't stop chewing this small
green tidbit. She did reach for the green bottle along with the salt
shaker and some chips. But Dad didn't think she was quite old enough
to go through with the whole process of how to truly enjoy a swallow
of this classic libation. Grandpa will be about seventy nice years
old when he and Angelina can truly and legally enjoy a night out with
a few beers.
Stay Sober. Grandpa
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Merry Christmas
and Feliz Navidad! We all had a wonderful time with Angelina and her
parents, uncles and friends on her first holiday celebration. I t
went by so quickly with so many places and people she visited. I am
still sorting through all the thousands of pictures taken of her during
her first Christmas season. It is amazing how cute she is in every
picture taken. We are trying to choose on for a Beautiful Baby Contest
on television. This is difficult but is exciting to see her and all
of the great times we had together. Angelina and her parents survived
her first real Cold Icy New Year in January. She didn’t get to see
much snow but 2007 is still young. I think she has enough warm winter
clothes but I’m sure Grandma might find some new special outfits soon.
Angelina’s new teeth and her vocabulary are getting bigger every day.
Chewing and singing will soon both be high on her list of thrilling
parts of her growing life. She seems to be well on her way to standing
and walking. Her Mom and Dad will be very busy with training and trailing
her all over their house. A tricycle and bicycle will soon by in the
minds of Grandpa and Grandma. Angelina’s next Christmas is only 345
days away. Going shopping for our Granddaughter is always a lot of
fun.
Love, Grandpa
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Grandpa Blog
10/22/06
Who's the Grandparent and Who's the Baby?
Having Angelina visit us on Saturday night while her parents were
celebrating their 2nd year of Marriage was an enlightening and wonderful
experience. She taught me two very important things that I shall never
forget. Do not hesitate or delay when she gets hungry. I should also
remember that I will always be her Grandpa and she loves to smile.
For someone who is only 4 months old, she has a lot to say about many
topics. She was upset when we watched Iowa defense collapse while
playing the Michigan Wolverines. She had some very rude comments to
express while we watched the news about the terrible things that are
happening in the Middle East. She was not impressed with some of the
skits on Saturday Night Live. She showed me how happy she was with
her parents and the way she is being raised. She is starting to understand
a lot of words and feelings that she is exposed to everyday. Happy
Parents make Happy Families. People that are not happy have so many
problems that need to be solved. As John Lennon once said, "There
are no problems, only solutions!" I'm not sure if she can comprehend
what that statement really means but my goal is to be sure to help
her solve any problems that may arise in her young life.
Love, GP Ken
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Grandpa Blog
October 14, 2006
Grandpa & the Chick Magnet
A few years have passed since the last time I carried a baby through
the isles of a department store. Saturday afternoon at the airport
Wal-Mart in San Antonio, Angelina and I had a great time meeting and
being given a lot of affection by most of the women in that store.
"Is she yours?", "She's so Cute!" and "You both look so happy!" were
the comments heard by both of us. Yes, she's my grandchild, she takes
after her Mom and thank you for noticing us, were my retorts. Women
usually don't smile at me or even look at me much anymore. I believe
Angelina had just as much fun as I did receiving so much attention
from these nice ladies. I am planning a trip for Angelina and I to
go to the convenience store where Fosters is sold. Hopefully some
of the wonderful women will buy us some refreshing drinks. It could
happen!
Love, GP Ken
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Grandpa Blog
October 4, 2006
Angelina took time out of her busy schedule to come out today and
help Grandma & Grandpa at the bunny farm. She gave her parents a little
time to rest and reflect on how happy and fun it is to have her at
home. At only 4 months old, Angelina is very aware of her surroundings,
is cutting some teeth and is trying to speak some type of language.
I imagine she will probably be able to speak every language on earthy
by the time she is an adult. The fact that she smiles nearly every
time she looks at me; tells me that I am really funny looking or that
she really enjoys knowing that I am her Grandpa. Now that her teeth
are emerging, I think she will be starting to eat solid foods. Deer
Jerky will probably be her favorite after puffy tacos! I can't wait
for your next visit. We'll see you at Great Aunt Deborah's party Saturday.
Love, GP Ken
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Educating Grandpa
– Sept 3
I think Angelina has already learned how to read. She was in my arms
sitting in the front yard when she looked at my shirt. The shirt was
a gift from her and her parents. It reads, “Number One Grandpa.” She
then proceeded to do “Number One” all over me and the shirt. I think
her Dad was the last person to change her diaper. I’m not sure if
it was not arranged in the proper position, or if she moved and kicked
to allow a direct passage to my previously dry shirt and shorts. I
knew that this event was inevitable but not during a Labor Day party!
Thank you Angelina, for making me a true member of your warm, wet
world.
Love, Grandpa Ken
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8/11/06- Dear
Tiger,
I just spent a day swimming in a nice, big and deep pool with a group
of young children. It was a birthday party for KJ, on of our friend’s
6 year old son. Some of the children swimming in the pool were not
much older than you are right now. Their parents and older siblings
were teaching them how to stay on top of the water. You know where
I live and what is in my house, so you will be learning how to swim
real soon. It’s surprising how many muscles you actually use swimming.
I haven’t been for a while and my back and legs are tired from swimming.
Learning how to hold your breath and not get water in you mouth and
nose are going to be the first steps. The way you already swing your
arms around, I think you will be proficient at the butterfly stroke.
Of course, we will be teaching you all the different strokes used
at the summer Olympics and you can pick your favorite. Get ready to
get wet! Love, Grandpa Ken
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Thank You, Tiger!!
8/8/06
Ever since you arrived here, you have found several ways to bring
my family closer together. We have all been together more often than
ever before. We have had great times together and you always keep
us smiling. You are a star and have a magnetic personality. I will
see you Saturday.
Love, Grandpa Ken
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July 27 - It
was another great day visiting Angelina and the rest of the family.
Grandpa Ken and I went over this morning and while Grandpa, Daddy
and Mommy cleared out some dead trees I got to play with Angelina
and take some Adorable pictures. I'll have to get them up on my webpages
for Angelina:-) After they finished that Grandpa and Daddy came in
and put up two new bars in the closet so Mommy and me could hang up
all Angelina's clothes. We had to go buy more hangers just so we could
get everything hung up! OK, we have to stop going to Kids Junction
for awhile! Angelina has so many darling outfits that she probably
won't be able to wear them all before she outgrows them. She needs
to have a photo shoot and get at least one picture in each outfit!!
Great Aunt Deborah and Great Uncle Pooch stopped by and got to visit
for awhile. Then Uncle Bob and Uncle Ernest came by and it was a full
house! We all enjoyed seeing each other again. We haven't been together
since 4th of July and Ernest missed that party:-( I had another wonderful
day with my family:-) It is hard to imagine my life before Angelina!
Love, Grandma Pat
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Our Trip To
Indiana
Thursday, July 13 - Well, Geli slept all the wary from San Antonio
Airport parking to the airliner gate number 34 in Chicago. Dad and
Grandpa were both frisked at the security gate in SA. Tim had too
many cameras and Ken lost his boarding pass. Everyone in the airport
was thrilled to see Angelina.
Thursday - 7pm - After a comfortable non eventful flight we landed
in O'Hare, got luggage and headed to Budget car rental, no minivans
left for lease. Another hour later and a few sour words and they found
our reserved vehicle. We forgot how buys the turnpike can be even
on a Thursday afternoon. We got to Great Grandma's house after a three
hour drive and no serious problems. The old folks were thrilled to
see us and of course Angelina.
Friday, July 14 - Mom, Tom, James, Jimmy, Linda & Bill and Tommy all
got together with us to celebrate Tim's 34th Birthday. Lasagna, pineapple
cake and of course everyone was thrilled to see Angelina.
Saturday, July 15 - The 55th ANNIVERSARY PARTY began about 1pm. Everyone
came to celebrate Mary Lou and Tom's life together. A great gathering
of friends, family and neighbors enjoying food and drinks and of course
they were all thrilled to see Angelina.
Sunday, July 16 - The HOTTEST day in Indiana this year. We sat around
eating, drinking and talking in cool places at Grandma's house. We
had so much food left over from the anniversary party so we tried
to eat all of it on this day! That didn't happen but everyone was
thrilled to say Goodbye to Angelina.
Monday, July 17 - We got up at 7am, we left Grandma's at 8:30. We
had a quick and easy trip to the airport. We ate lunch at the O'Hare
food court and all the other passengers were thrilled to see Angelina.
Monday afternoon - Then there was the flight home. We had to change
gates because of some technical difficulties from the high temperatures
outside and move to another wing of O'Hare airport. The ramp and the
plane that we boarded were at about 95 degrees. The two babies across
the isle cried, screamed and yelled for 2 hours and 19 minutes all
the way to San Antonio. The lady next to me was offended because I
did not use enough antiperspirant and Angelina was thrilled to be
home.
Monday evening while in San Antonio, we had a great meal at Angelina's
favorite restaurant. We all shared chicken and beef fajitas. We all
agreed that the trip to Indiana was a fun adventure. It was great
to see most of our relatives and visit for just a while to catch up
on all of the important news about our lives. With all the pictures
and videos taken, it is a trip that Angelina will always remember.
Love, Grandpa Ken
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July 10 - What's
So Funny?
Grandma Vanecek! It seems to be that when Angelina is held by Pat
she loves to smile and make funny faces. It could just be gas but
I believe Pat's face makes many people smile. I always get a good
feeling when I wake up next to Pat every morning.
I think intelligent babies have the gift of knowing who is a good
and wonderful person. The way a baby feels when being held and talked
to by a good person is expressed through their smiling face. I guess
they feel comfortable and safe when held by loving arms. Pat had a
lot of experience raising two kids and about one thousand bunnies.
Rabbits feel safe and happy when held correctly and comfortably. If
rabbits or babies kick or cry, something could be wrong with how they
are being held. When I see Pat hold and comfort Angelina and see them
both smiling and happy, I get a happy warm feeling all over. I guess
we need to plan a new trip to Tim & Marcela's home soon.
Grandpa Ken
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July 9 - Mexican
Food
Well, we took Angelina to her favorite restaurant Saturday. This is
the third time that I have gone out to eat with her and her parents
at this special place. The puffy tacos with rice and beans seem to
be her favorite plate, especially after her Mom enjoys eating it for
her. It seems to pass through Mom with flying colors because Angelina
will not stop nursing. Of course, without the help of beano, Angelina
can scare off the dogs with the noise she makes. I thought I heard
a bit of thunder but it was just little Geli relieving some stomach
pressure. What a champ! Someday I hope to test her out on some Asian,
Italian or even French cuisine. Things will really get interesting
when she will order for herself and can operate a fork, knife and
spoon with some degree of efficiency. I hope she likes the Bar-B-Q
at Great Grandma Billeauxs 50th Anniversary Party! If they serve beans,
we will all be able to hear her sing.
Grandpa Ken
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July 8 - Well
it was sure nice seeing Angelina today. She changes so much every
time I see her. Today there was a special sparkle in her eyes! We
went to lunch with Grandpa, Mom, Dad and Uncle Bob. Angelina slept
through most of that. Then afterwards we stopped by Kids Junction
where Grandma and Mom had to buy a few more new outfits. Not like
Angelina needs them but check out how cute she looks in the little
yellow outfit Grandma bought. http://www.bunnyrabbit.com/Angelina/MorePix.htm
It says “I’m Beeutiful”. Grandpa had problems keeping the camera still
but I think all the pix are fantastic. Not only did I see the special
sparkle but lots more smiles! Miss you already Angelina,
Grandma
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July 4 - Angelina,
I love the new addition to your website, "Angelina Says!" In the picture
on the front page you look quite adorable. I can't wait to see what
people ask you and read your answers. I also enjoyed the new pictures
of you. Don't let Grandpa give you too much Fosters!!
Love, Grandma
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June 25 I Miss
Her - I know how Marcela feels. I miss looking into Angelina’s
sweet face. I saw her Tuesday but that’s almost a week ago!!
I go to her website every day, to see what new videos and pictures
Daddy has added. I really enjoy getting to see new pix of her. I can
follow along with every stage of her developmentJ She is changing
and growing so fast! Friday and Saturday we had a rabbit show in Oklahoma.
All of our customers got to see the pictures of Angelina that I had
brought along. A lot of them had already seen them on my website or
Angelina’s. Ken was sure to tell everyone what a fantastic Father
Tim is. Everyone agreed though that Angelina is too cute and Ken is
one proud Grandpa!
-Proud Grandma
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June 17 - I
saw Angelina and her Mom and Dad at my 55th birthday party today.
They all looked great. Healthy and Happy! Everyone had a great time.
Angelina spent a lot of time outside soaking up the atmosphere. She
wasn’t awake sometimes but I knew she could tell what was going on.
It was a party and I know she wants to go to lots more! It was one
of the best birthdays I’ve ever had. I truly enjoyed being with Family
and Friends. And I don’t mind being 55 at all. She hasn’t changed
much and I am enjoying seeing her as a sweet little thing. I can’t
wait to be able to talk to her and have her tell me exactly what her
take is on the situationJ I can already tell that she is going to
be sharp as a tack. I hope you have a good time at your Great Uncle’s
tomorrow Angelina. Luckily your Dad will video it so you can remember.
Love, Grandma
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6/14 To Be Or
Not To Be?
I chose to marry my wonderful wife. I chose to have two wonderful
children. I chose to live in Texas. Being a Grandpa was a gift from
Tim and Marcela. People do not have the choice of being Grandparents.
It can only be achieved when their children chose to become parents.
So in order to be a Grandpa, one must first have children of their
own.Someday, if Angelina chooses to have children, Tim and Marcela
will become Grandparents. This is what inspires me to keep a log on
all the new and exciting experiences that Angelina and her Parents
will share with me.
Hopefully, all of the ideas and suggestions I share with them will
be of help and inspire their future life together. Being a Grandpa
doesn't mean that I am getting older. It means that I just have more
of life to appreciate.
Love, Grandpa Ken
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June14 – While I am happy to
answer any question and help when I can, it’s been a long time since
I had a baby and my memory isn’t what it used to be. New Mothers today
are so lucky to have the internet. It is a fantastic source of information.
I found the Mayo Clinic website http://mayoclinic.com and it is loaded
with articles. It also has an easy to use search engineJ New Mom’s
can find out the answers to almost any question within minutes. No
more waiting for the doctor to return your phone call. No more worrying
if your question is too silly to bother a doctor with. Just open your
web browser, type in your question and sort through the different
answers. Then figure out which one is best for you and your baby.
Marcela, Tim and Angelina are lucky to be living in 2006.
Love Grandma Pat
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6/13/06- What Do Babies Know?
I don't remember much about my first few years of life. I hear experts
say that children are greatly influenced and develop according to
their environment during the early years. Happiness, fear, surprise,
stress and all of the many emotions are absorbed and some how recorded
into babies brains. Most of their future is programmed into their
little computer before age two. They do hear, see and feel everything
that is nearby. I believe children should be exposed to all of life's
ups and downs. Who knows what anyone will develop into when they mature
into adults. Every person is different which is what makes this a
wonderful world. How dull would this world be if everyone was just
like me? Angelina is loved and cherished by a great number of people.
She will learn from and be influenced by many relatives and friends.
Of course, her parents will have the greatest role in her early development.
It's important for them to listen to all of the comments and suggestions
from everyone who loves Angelina. They can then sort the information,
put it in the correct folder in their computer and then use it or
trash it as they see fit. Angelina's life will be filled with yes's
and no's just like a computer. Filling Angelina's memory with good
things is what everyone who loves her wants to achieve. Happy babies
normally grow up to be happy adults. I am going to do my best to insure
Angelina receives only fantastic experiences from me for her to store
into her life memories. Love, Grandpa Ken
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June 13- Being a Grandma! What
fun! I didn't anticipate how much I would truly enjoy it. We have
been going through pictures and videos of our two boys and I had forgotten
what cute babies they were. Now I know where Angelina gets it:-) tehe
I was so happy to hear Angelina got a thumbs up from the doctor on
her first doctors appointment. I was excited to hear that she is eating
well and pooping it out. I love checking up on her with the videos
on her website. It's like seeing her every day. Of course it doesn't
compare with holding her, giving her kisses and hearing her coo. I'll
have to wait till tomorrow night for that. Hugs & Kisses, Grandma
Pat
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6/10 Grandparenting 101: Try
not to worry about every little thing that might or might not happen.
Oh yes, I once had little people sleeping in my house. It's not necessarily
worry but is concern a parent has for doing the right thing. It's
easy to do something wrong if you are not informed or prepared. I'm
amazed at how much knowledge and experience with babies I have forgotten
in the last few years. Oh Yeah! It's been over 30 years since we had
a baby in our house. There is also the fact that things have changed
and new techniques have been discovered for "Bringing Up Baby". It
seems Grandpa has a lot to learn and also some serious memory salvaging
to work on. Learning and relearning rearing of young babies should
be a lot of fun. Of course, my job is to only be a helper and advisor.
The final decisions about any situation should be made by the Parents
only. Angelina is already training all of us. She will be taking control
of any situation that may concern her. It's up to all of her family
to be there whenever she may need our help or support. I've always
wanted to be there for my boys and now I want to also be there for
Angelina. I don't want to worry so I will try to be prepared. Love,
Grandpa Ken
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June 6, 2006 We
are getting ready to go to the hospital and hopefully meet Marcela
and Tim’s new little bundle of joy soon. I wanted to refute
a few facts from the June 3 Grandpa Ken blog. Babies do smell good!
They don’t have stinky diapers until you start feeding them
food. Breast milk seems to be the best thing for them and their digestive
system. I do agree that keeping the noise down and keeping strangers
at a distance are both good ideas with a new Baby. And keeping them
confined when you have to go to the doctors’ office. Mom and
Dad will quickly recognize the different tones of crying. And they
will be brought to their knees when they hear the cooing that Baby
makes when they are totally contented. I am very anxious and I know
Marcela and Tim are as well. But my first little Grandbaby will be
here soon enough. It’s already 2 days before we expected you
anyway. Love, Grandma
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June 4 When Baby
Comes Home.
Our first baby
in the house. Pat and Tim were released from the hospital a couple
days after the birth. Driving home slowly and hitting no bumps or
chuck holes was priority number one. A lot of healing was yet to be
accomplished. Just walking up three steps into our trailer was a painful
chore for Pat. The baby was in the house and we were ready for anything.
Ha! Ha! The first thing that I noticed was that babies do not smell
good. I don't know who came up with that old wives tale but they pee
and poop constantly. Little boys like to pee straight up when Mom
or Dad is changing his dirty diaper. Having a tightly closed hamper,
preferably outside, is the first necessity for those poop filled little
diapers.The noise in a home with a new little one should be kept at
a constant quiet level. When baby finally falls asleep and if the
phone rings or a knock at the door or a dog is barking or even a train
passing by, all hell can break loose. I suggest turning off the telephone
ringer, putting a sign on the front door and putting on some soothing
music for the baby at nap time. For the first few months screaming
and crying are the babies only means of communication. There are different
cries for: I am hungry, I am messy, or Where the heck are you? New
parents should hopefully be able to decipher these different sounds
after two or three weeks.Keeping the baby away from sick people or
people who are sick is the next phase to keeping a happy home. Tim
had three Grandpas and three Grandmas and too many of his parents
friends come to visit. Isolation is not the answer but if you notice
a person coughing or sneezing or just looks a little out of sorts,
it's not rude to ask them to step back or even get but to save you
and your babies health. I always hated to have to take one of the
boys to the doctor. The cost of the visit, the cost of the drugs and
the sorrow of seeing your child in pain are all painful to parents.
The nurses always make you wait in the "Sick kids room"
for the doctor. Of course the baby will probably pick up a new infection
or virus in there from one of the other sick kids! Having the proper
food or breast milk is very important. Pat breast fed for awhile but
had some problems and we had to resort to "the bottle".
We got formula for the baby and whiskey for Dad. I never did like
the taste of most foods and milk formulas that we tried to feed Tim.
Yes, I tried them all. I wanted to see why Tim made such a sour face
whenever I tried to feed him that shit. Try to give baby something
that is good for him and also tastes good. If possible, bathe the
baby after every mess and keep diaper rash medicine on hand.Good luck,
Grandpa Ken
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June 3, 2006 When
Is This Baby Coming Out?
Tim was due on July
4th. Well after being out working all night, I took Pat back onto the
base for a checkup. It was now July 14th. The doctor said it would probably
be another week to 10 days before he arrived. This did not set well
with Pat. Of course, she couldn’t sit anywhere lately without
some discomfort.
I had been out on
dispatch the night before and hadn’t slept for the last 24 hours.
I talked to a friend when I went to buy new mufflers for our car. He
said his brother told him about one method to induce labor. Drive her
back and forth across some bad railroad tracks in Missouri. We just
happened to have some of the worst railroad crossings in the world.
We went for a ride
in my old 1956 Ford pickup. It had no shock absorbers and the most uncomfortable
bench seat ever made. We got back to the house, I changed the mufflers,
started a steak on the grill (hadn’t eaten for a while either)
and was about ready to sit down myself.
Then Pat came up
to me and said, “We have to go back to the base hospital. My water
broke and they said to come back.” I told her, “This time
I am leaving you there until you have this baby.” We got to the
base about 6:30pm and Tim was born at 8:40pm. What a champ and what
a day. The medical field has come up with some new and improved methods
for inducing labor for the super pregnant.
I hope Marcela finds
a more comfortable method than what Pat had to endure. Try to keep cool,
keep your feet up, and think happy baby thoughts. Get your makeup and
hair products ready for all the photo shots. Make sure to have cute
outfits ready for the baby pictures. Oh yes and do your own a nursing
bra. I never heard of such a thing until Pat asked her father to bring
one to the hospital the night Tim was born. Rest and Relax. You will
be a Mommy and Daddy very soon. -Grandpa Ken |
6/1: I am beginning to recall the
moment when Pat told me that she was pregnant. It seemed so sudden after
she went off her birth control pills. I had a two week stay in one of
the nicer Air Force hospitals in Ohio. Pat and I talked every night on
collect calls from me. We had a pay phone in the hospital hall about 50
yards from my barracks type hospital bed. They had me strapped up with
pulleys and weights trying to straighten my crooked neck. I would have
to sneak past the desk nurse and a couple of ward watchers that would
tend to my every need. Ha! It was usually around 9pm when all the wounded
Viet Nam vets fell asleep. Anyway, we talked dirty to each other probably
every time and sobbed to have to say goodbye. When I got home I was pretty
confident that Pat would get pregnant soon. And soon it was.
We wanted to try to make raising a child
a wonderful and fun part of our lives. We bought some Dr Spock books
and tried talking to people who have had children. We were still so
stupid but were quickly learning things about raising children as soon
as Tim was born. We had a few ups and downs but enjoyed and cherish
every minute of our experiences. My two boys are a beautiful part of
my life.
Now I am
almost a Grandpa! It seems so strange to be experiencing the birth of
my son’s first child. It is just as exciting as Tim’s birth.
Tim and Marcela are going to be experiencing parenthood and all the
ups and downs. I will always try to answer any questions and can’t
wait to learn to be a good Grandpa. I’m sure the new little member
of our family will teach me some great lessons. I am watching a lot
of the Dr Phil shows for any hints on Grandparenting. We will probably
search the net for any good question and answer Grandparent sites. Watching
Tim & Marcela become parents will also be wonderful. I think they
will have a plenty of sources for parenting information. Welcome to
the world little Angelina/Raphael. -Grandpa Ken |